GOD, LOVE & DATING
How to Win at Love Without Losing Your Soul; What no one told me.
Struggling to find real love in a world full of games? Discover how to date God's way—fun, faith-filled, and purpose-driven.
Let’s Talk Real Love
Dating today can feel like an emotional rollercoaster—left on read, ghosted, situationships, and the occasional "Holy Ghost" excuse. But here's the truth: God didn’t create love to be this messy. He created it to be holy, healing, and worth it.
So how do we date without losing our minds (or our morals)? Let’s break it down.
1. Start With God, Not With a Crush
Before you shoot your shot or slide into that DM, check your connection with God. When He’s the foundation, your love life becomes less chaotic and more Christ-centered. Dating becomes less about finding "the one" and more about becoming the one God is shaping you to be.
📖 "Seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you." – Matthew 6:33
2. Stop Settling for Vibes—Seek Values
Yes, chemistry matters. But character matters more. Don’t just fall for cute captions and aesthetic feeds. Look for someone who’s rooted in faith, not just fluent in Christianese. Godly love looks like consistency, accountability, prayer, and purpose.
👀 Pro Tip: A prayerful partner > a playful one.
Real talk: not everyone deserves access to your heart. Dating with boundaries is not being uptight—it’s being wise. Protect your emotional energy, your spiritual peace, and your future.
📖 "Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it." – Proverbs 4:23
4. Love Is a Choice That Shows Up Daily
Forget the movie drama. Real love isn’t fireworks every day. It’s choosing to show up when it's boring, hard, or quiet. It forgives, listens, learns, and grows. Love that lasts is love that leans on God.
💡 Fun Fact: Jesus never fell in love. He walked in love. Intentional > emotional.
5. Date With Destiny in Mind
Purpose is attractive. Don’t date out of loneliness—date with vision. Ask yourself: Does this person fuel your fire for God or make you compromise it? Healthy relationships align with Heaven's assignment.
📖 "For we are God’s masterpiece... created to do the good works He prepared in advance for us to do." – Ephesians 2:10
Final Takeaway: God is Invested in Your Love Life
You don’t need to fake it, chase it, or force it. If God is in it, peace will lead you. Whether you’re single, dating, or "figuring it out," you are already deeply loved, known, and enough in Christ.
✨ So pause the pressure, pray boldly, and pursue love with purpose.
If this spoke to you, drop a comment, share it with your circle, or tag someone who needs to read this. Let’s do love God’s way.
Learn more : On Biblical wisdom for patience and trust
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